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In Boston, Presently.

I've been here for over a week now. It's been pretty great so far, except I got sick tonight. It must be the weather in Boston, because several others in our group have already been sick with a sore throat and I thought I'd managed to dodge it, but... Anyway, I'm spending most of my time in my youth hostel bed right now, working on homework, trying to finish it all before the trip is done. That's right, homework. May I remind you this is a trip designated by my university and therefore, does not really feel or act like a vacation.

Although, we did get to go whale watching yesterday and that was pretty cool. Unlike the experience George and I had on our honeymoon, this time it was humpback whales instead of killer whales. And they are large. Comparatively.

Just thought I'd give you all a minor update. George comes back from Ukraine on Monday, and even though I don't get back from Boston until Friday, I am looking forward to getting to talk to him on the phone--really, TALKING--for the first time in a month!

Never thought I'd say this, but I am looking forward to getting back to Tennessee. Not that I don't really like Boston, as it is a big city and you all know how much I dig big cities! But I miss being at home with my husband.

Cheesy, I know. So sue me.

This is My Husband-Face.

George has been gone for almost one week now. It has felt much longer. I am SO. BORED.

Believe it or not, George being gone seems the least of my anxieties right now.

Summer school has provided a workload I did not expect to be so heavy and I am frantically trying to complete assignments every night after coming home from work.

The most upsetting thing I'm dealing with now ties in with this picture of George, covered in oil from working on my car...

We took my car to a mechanic, who had been referred by another auto place we'd done business with before. We simply needed a small part replaced and while George had tried for many weeks to do it himself, he simply could not find the part on the car that needed replacing. So we took it to this guy...

About four days after leaving the car with the mechanic, we called to follow up and find out if my car was ready for picking up. However, the mechanic replied that he had tried very hard to find the part we'd given him from the dealership, but he couldn't find it and would have to order another. We were a little baffled by the mechanic's inability to keep track of something that we had left on the passenger seat for him, but we were patient and told him we'd call by the end of the week.

When we finally called, we also added how George would be leaving the country very soon and we would need to get the car as soon as it was ready. The mechanic said it would be ready Tuesday, the day before George would fly away. While Tuesday would be very, very busy, we didn't have much choice in the matter and told him we would be there at 3:00 in the afternoon to pick it up.

After dropping George off at the mechanic's lot, I had to leave because I was scheduled to be at work in less than an hour. While driving to work, George called and said, "He didn't charge us anything because it took so long!" Of course, I felt like that was fair, considering he'd kept our car nearly two weeks and it was only expected to take about three or four days.

Later that night, after getting home from work, George was busily packing to leave at 5:30 in the morning, which was only a few hours away. Eventually, he had to go out to my car to look for anything he might need to pack. He was out there for quite a while...

When he came back into the apartment, I saw a look on George's face I had rarely ever seen. It was an angry expression and it even took him a while to say anything when I asked him, "What? What's wrong?!"

"They took my tools," he said.

I was stunned. George had been working on the car for weeks and had been keeping the tools locked in the back of my car instead of carrying the heavy thing back and forth to our apartment, which is upstairs. The tools were a very expensive gift from my dad, who wanted George to have these tools for doing exactly what he had been doing--fixing stuff. George had never owned anything that wasn't a hand-me-down, so for him to receive a gift worth nearly $450, he was extremely grateful and proud of what he had.

No wonder he was so angry. Later, we discovered the ashtray, which had a few stray dollars in it, was also gone. And then, it dawned on me the part we'd ordered from the dealership which the mechanic couldn't find was probably something that had been taken as well.

Because George was leaving so soon, we knew we had to file the report as quickly as possible, despite how late it was. We called the justice department and met with a police officer in their parking lot. After explaining the situation thoroughly about three times, we were finally able to return home.

Since then, I have returned to the mechanic's lot and explained to him the situation. He says the items were never in the car because he never saw them. However, he also said that he didn't enter our car until a few days after we had left it with him, so who's to say someone who worked there didn't get into it?

"That's impossible," the mechanic told me. "These boys have worked for me for more than 10 years. They couldn't do it."

"But they had access," I told him.

"They didn't do it," he was getting very defensive.

When I inquired about his insurance, he said he didn't have any. So I gave him the receipt of things that were in the toolbox, amounting to the worth of the toolbox and the tools inside, and asked him to get back to me within the week. He said nothing had ever been stolen in the 23 years he'd been running his business, but I didn't back down. I just told him to contact me by Monday.

Which is tomorrow. So this is my current predicament. I'm planning on leaving early next Saturday morning for Boston and so I'm trying to get this taken care of now, even while George isn't around to help. Either way, if I have to take the guy to small claims court, I will, because I absolutely HATE that someone there took George's tools.

I swear, stealing is one of those things that makes me most angry. You can't help feeling taken advantage of and in some way, condescended to.

I don't give up easily. Just watch. Next time I write about this, you'll see a picture of the toolbox, safely back in our possession.

Codependency 101.

Since we started dating--again--in October of 2006, George and I have been inseparable. Not really in the annoying way, either. Because honestly, we spend a great majority of the day apart. But neither of us has gone away or been apart in distance since we got married last August and even before then. That said...

George leaves tomorrow morning, very early, for three weeks in the Ukraine.

Without me.

My trip to New England overlaps his trip part of the time, but not entirely. And quite honestly, I'm almost intimidated to go anywhere without him. I don't like the idea of experiencing a new place without him or vice versa.

But we have to go, so we're going. Just not together...

I'm such a co-dependent now! What happened to me?!

Robert's Party.

So I'm Kind of Excited.


Coy?
Originally uploaded by carlybish
I have this feeling like summer is going to fly by. What with summer school, and cross-cultural trips, and work--I really think it's going to feel like it's over before we even realize it. And that makes me excited because then, fall semester will start, and thus begins the beginning to the end of my college education. Although, I do plan on taking a class or two post graduation (to finish my writing minor), I will otherwise have my degree and won't have to bother with it anymore.

After I graduate, I'll finally be able to work more, save more, and possibly pursue the things I'm more passionate about. Like photography. I'm going to save for the widest angle lens on the market and tackle real estate photography--inspired by my sister, who is a real estate agent in Seattle--and see if I can supplement my income substantially. Eventually, when George has finished school, I hope to have saved enough for us to cover the expense of moving back to Seattle. Right now, I'm estimating it to cost somewhere around $5000 total. And that's if we move straight into an apartment instead of moving back in with my parents first. I might make $5000 the goal and still move back in with my parents, just to get on our feet first. They've acknowledge that it's a likelihood but we all know none of us want it to be for very long. I love my parents and they love me, but we like our privacy and space.

I know where we'll be moving to and I've scouted a number of Starbucks in the neighborhood, where I can eventually transfer. The location is about 15 minutes from my parents' house, about 15 minutes from Seattle, and literally down the street from the local Park&Ride bus station.

I'm just excited about it. I'm thrilled that I can start making plans now. Even though it's still a solid year and a half or more away, we're going to get the ball rolling now so by the time George has finished with school, we'll only need to tie some loose ends and then head out west.

I came out here in October of 2004 and probably won't leave until winter of 2009 or summer of 2010. I have learned a lot about myself and I was definitely meant to be here. But I'm tired and I'm hungry for something new and even though we'll be going back to Seattle, I know it has a brand new chapter to offer our lives. And for that, I am kind of excited.

Blockbuster.



I'm not trying to impress anyone. This is who we are.